Comments on: To The Moms Suing Their Sperm Bank https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=moms-suing-sperm-bank Simplify. Inspire. Connect. Thu, 18 Jun 2015 16:42:41 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.5 By: Sadie's Gathering https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/#comment-276258 Thu, 16 Oct 2014 23:57:16 +0000 https://www.bonbonbreak.com/?p=24252#comment-276258 Nice compassionate post.

I feel for the moms, because I grew up in a similar intolerant area, and can imagine what they’re dealing with.

Can’t help but wonder if a white straight couple had the same situation, due to the man’s infertility, would there be the same amount of coverage on it? Or would the media see that as understandable?

If you would like to read my post on it, on my blog, Sadie’s Gathering, just go to:

http://sadiesgathering.blogspot.com/2014/10/lets-talk-about-sperm-baby.html

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By: Ellie C https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/#comment-256864 Fri, 10 Oct 2014 01:44:58 +0000 https://www.bonbonbreak.com/?p=24252#comment-256864 In reply to Kristin Shaw.

Thanks, Kristin. I think how they frame this lawsuit to their daughter down the road will be important, and hopefully when she is old enough to learn about it, they’ll be able to do it sensitively and in the context of a strong, loving relationship. I know some of the outrage is worry about how the daughter will be affected. It isn’t a perfect situation, by any means, but publicly berating parents doesn’t do anyone any good, right?

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By: Ellie C https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/#comment-256837 Fri, 10 Oct 2014 01:36:33 +0000 https://www.bonbonbreak.com/?p=24252#comment-256837 In reply to Jennifer.

Jennifer, I read your response on Keesha’s post about the experience of going through choosing a donor and the emotional toll it takes. You put it into words to beautifully! (And I am so so glad you now have your beautiful daughter!)

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By: AD Powell (@mischling2nd) https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/#comment-253288 Thu, 09 Oct 2014 03:21:06 +0000 https://www.bonbonbreak.com/?p=24252#comment-253288 I never understood why so-called “pure” white mothers with mixed race children are questioned as to their fitness while no questions are asked about black or non-white mothers parenting white children (“White” defined as “looks white”).

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By: Kristin Shaw https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/#comment-251882 Wed, 08 Oct 2014 19:12:39 +0000 https://www.bonbonbreak.com/?p=24252#comment-251882 I love the compassion in this post. I understand the internet’s outrage for the child, because it will be hard news for her to take. On the other hand, perhaps they’re just trying to compensate for the adjustments they will have to make because, indeed, they were not prepared. That doesn’t mean that they don’t love their child. I hope to give them the benefit of the doubt.

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By: Jennifer https://www.bonbonbreak.com/moms-suing-sperm-bank/#comment-250681 Wed, 08 Oct 2014 12:26:53 +0000 https://www.bonbonbreak.com/?p=24252#comment-250681 Thank you for this. My husband and I tried sperm donation (it didn’t work) when we were going through our infertility struggles. I can’t even imagine if it had worked and then we realized we were given the wrong sperm after the agonizing decision of picking it.

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